Imagine if our society was completely honest- no holds bar, face to face. Imagine if we told each other how we really felt. If we said what was on our mind without be shielded by our phone screens, wouldn’t things be a little easier?
Some people suffering from depression could get the help they need. Others could get closure.
Think about all the compliments that go through our heads that we hesitate to share with those who may need them. Or the anger we carry because we shy away from confronting those who have hurt us.
Let me be clear, I am not saying, “let’s all say every thought we have.” I, in no way, support bullying or insulting other people. Sometimes we think negative thoughts and sometimes those thoughts should be left alone.
But at the end of the day, it’s better to have been honest about how you feel rather than allow unspoken words wreak havoc on your happiness.
Upset by what someone did? Tell them.
No longer interested in someone? Let them know.
Grateful for the people in your life? Show them how much you appreciate them.
Need support or contact? Reach out to people and explain how you feel.
It’s as simple as that.
In today’s society, it’s easier to answer Facebook when it asks “What’s on your mind” than our friends and family. But if we stop biting our lips and stop concealing how we feel, we can all live honestly.
